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Age of Distractions

We call this as “Information Age”. That’s right. It is full of information. We do admit that we suffer from abundance of information. We have too much information to digest and deal with.

Even more it has become an "Age of Distractions". One is constantly distracted from all directions. Every time you are distracted, your focus is lost. And it takes quite a while for one to get back and focus on what he was doing. Sometimes, due to the nature of distraction, one cannot continue what he was doing anymore. So sad, but many are increasingly becoming victims of those distractions.

What is the cause for Distraction?

The very sources that are giving you information are also causing distractions. Here are the main distracters: I have seen many who are always connected. They are either talking on phone or messaging. They are either reading a mail or sending one. They are viewing someone else’s photos in social networking website and commenting on that or uploading their own photos.

SMS has become very affordable. There are offers from mobile networks that encourage many to talk more, send more messages.

So you are bombarded with messages, calls, mails, chatting invitation and comments from friends in social networking websites.

Victims of Distractions

Unfortunately the benefits of information are outweighed by the pitfalls of distractions.

Many are not able to sit with solitude and focus on a task for a while.

A typical scenario is, one boots the computer, starts his/her work and then comes a pop up window with the message “What’s up buddy?” from a friend. Many are driven by that and start the chat. They go on and on, leaving the work they started. Or it may be a call on mobile or a message chat or some other mindless notification that distracts you.

So, who is to be blamed?

Are we to blame technology like mobile phone or Internet for distractions?

No way.

We got to blame ourselves. In my honest opinion all these distractions are self-inflicted. You are inviting them. Not that they are forced upon you.

Why should you be connected all through the day? Why should you receive every call or read every message as and when it comes? Why should you check mails every now-and-then and read comments in social networking websites as if your life depends on them?

What we really need is a simple reality check and an honest admission that we are addicted to “Connection Addiction”. We are connected to online world more than required. We are giving others a chance to reach us even when they don’t have to reach us.

So let us stop blaming others for calling or messaging you. Take the blame on  you. The simple truth is you have a choice to take call, or read message as it arrives. So it’s you who reads the message or receives call (probably knowing it wouldn’t be of high importance). So the control lies with you. The distraction is your own making because you let it happen.

Why are people getting distracted so much?

I am no psychologist. But I feel it is about "self-esteem". I mean people feel high about themselves when others show interest in them. A message or a mail from someone would gratify the fact that he or she is thinking of you and spending time to send mail or message to you. It makes us feel great.

Of course, by all means, it is a great feeling to be loved, cared for. No doubt. Every human being craves for it.

But are we getting a little and losing a lot?

Your Facebook account has hundreds of friends. You keep logging in and checking who said what about your new profile picture or some video that you uploaded. If everyone in the world is busy, world would have been a different place. So the fact is, there are a lot of people on the planet earth who don’t have much to do (or don’t want to do much). So they keep posting comments on everything you update. It feeds your ego. Your self-esteem goes up as you feel a lot of people are interested in you. May be true; but in the process, you get distracted and lose focus on something that is more important in your life. Every time you are distracted it takes quite a while to refocus. All that time you spend on gaining focus is lost and lost forever. Every time you are distracted, you are off target for a while. Alarming facts reveal that the time thus lost is significant in each day.

Well, I know it is important to be connected and to inform others about your major activities. Of course there are people who care to know your well being. But it doesn’t mean you spend hours on Facebook or talking on phone. There can never be more than 24 hours in a day. So when you spend some time on one, you can’t spend it on another which is probably more important task.

How to get rid of distractions?

Well it is very simple. First of all, it needs honest admission from your side that you are getting distracted. If you think the amount of distraction is very little and it doesn’t derail your journey towards goals then it is fine. But you have to be ruthlessly honest with yourself. Otherwise you are bluffing yourself.

In case, you admit that you are being distracted then get rid of sources of distraction.

First of all, schedule your day. A time for everything and everything in its time.

Here are some recommendations of mine:

Conclusion

With so many resources available to many of us, the ones who use them constructively will be successful. You can use or abuse a resource. Choice is yours. You are (good or bad) because of the choices you make.

I personally feel if a person in this information era can use information effectively there is no way he can’t succeed. The same source that gives you information can also cause distraction. So use all sources of information judiciously.

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Posted By Manogna On 22-Oct-12 09:19:14 AM

An eye-opener and an enlightening blog again. The way you present it makes all the difference Sir. Yeah, one has to be ruthlessly honest with one's own self. That's the most difficult thing actually. At the end of the day, all of it boils down to having control on our thoughts which go in a 1000 directions each second.
Distractions have been placed in a perfect order from the highest(SMS) to the lowest(Television). Awesome. A very good blog again on a very important topic.



Posted By Mani On 22-Oct-12 10:19:45 AM

Another great article Sir. Thanks for sharing such information.



Posted By Uday On 23-Oct-12 10:13:37 AM

Wonderful article sir. Every word is absolutely true. Even though we feel that we are distracted and going off-track, we conveniently ignore that and continue. This article helps us to come out of that and make us aligned to our goals...Thank You Sir



Posted By KARTIK JANDHYALA On 23-Oct-12 11:03:28 PM

REALLY NICE ARTICLE SIR AND ALSO PRESENTED IN GENUINE MANNER :)



Posted By sudha On 24-Oct-12 05:15:55 PM

nice blog sir !



Posted By Jaya Chandra(JC) On 24-Oct-12 11:40:26 PM

Very well said Sir!! Really a motivating one..and it helps young guys like us to stay focused on our goal. I personally feel your teaching in/off class pretty awesome! Looking forward for more articles like this from you Sir:)



Posted By M Shankar Rao On 26-Oct-12 09:31:54 PM

thanks for your valuable suggestions sir



Posted By Kasyap On 31-Oct-12 03:53:37 PM

Thanks for your article. At least many of the students who took a course from you or those who go thro your website would get to know the truth that if these facilities ( like cell phone and internet ) are not used properly, it is the person who is abusing it who has to be blamed..
There are other things like electronic gadgets ( video games ) and games on the computer ( like the card games )to which people get addicted to and wasting lots of valuable time.
When a respectable person and a great teacher like you presents these facts, the general public would follow.
Thanks for your article again...



Posted By Sasi On 08-Nov-12 03:28:00 PM

Choice is yours. You are (good or bad) because of the choices you make.
Very true..Thanks For Sharing..Nice Article..



Posted By Raj On 30-Nov-12 08:25:08 PM

Nice to see this message master!! There are very few masters like you who will teach a lot of life values along with technical stuff.

I would like to add the below story here ,

It was Buddha's last day in this mortal world. Ananda was his cousin and also the closest disciple. He was crying and weeping. Ananda was not yet Enlightened. He was saying Buddha, "You are a spiritual Guru and a beacon to me and all us on this journey of enlightenment. Now you are leaving us all. What will happen to us? What will happen to me? Who will show us the right way and right path? Who will take me and guide me on this spiritual journey? The whole world and life was an utter darkness to us and you came in our life as our light and delight. Who will show us this light now?" Buddha just opened his eyes and said, "Appo Deepo Bhava". He said, "Just be a light unto yourself. Nobody can give this light to you". All Buddha's have just pointed towards this light. They have only indicated towards this light. It was their love and compassion for all of us. We all have to move towards this divine light that is hidden in each one of us.


So friends, when one start living with nature as advised by Srikanth sir, our senses start working and one would be able to know oneself and one's path towards perfection without any confusion.This is pretty much needed lesson as the world is of various distractions and opportunities.One should be with clarity on what he is doing to discriminate what is really needed.



Posted By Kiran Kumar K On 04-Dec-12 12:53:29 PM

At first,thanks for sharing such a nice article sir..!!
It is very well depicted and explained so good.Looking forward for more such articles..!!



Posted By Kiran Kumar Panda On 20-Dec-12 04:32:26 PM

Super Article Sir. It's an eye opener.
You brought up the real facts (or issues) with remedies.
We should observe our decisions diligently.



Posted By Ayyappa Raj On 30-Jan-13 05:50:41 PM

Hi Sir,

I am from Chennai working in IT for past 7 years now.

I have been refering to your site for many occations and i got the solution all the times. with respect to IT, Comman things, Quiz etc everything in one site.

Great and now i am wondering there is no such person / institute in chennai !!

Plan for a branch in chennai.

Thanks and regards,
Ayyappa Raj



Posted By Bala Kanishka On 12-May-13 08:04:25 PM

Well Sir, its quite a lot to receive at the first instance of reading this article. But the thing is you are right. Please keep posting articles like these. We are waiting..



Posted By Maximiliano On 17-Jun-13 10:13:23 PM

Unlparlaeled accuracy, unequivocal clarity, and undeniable importance!



Posted By chandrasekhar On 17-Dec-13 11:48:17 AM

sir just made me to realize..nd gave such a good sugestions..thank u very much



Posted By Himasagar On 23-Feb-15 12:51:01 AM

I attended your class when I was studying in Gitam in the year 2008. I'm a proud student of you and also ardent fan of your life style. Your blog and website are fantastic sources of both technical and social knowledge.
Keep posting these kind of things which you are very good at.